Homeopathy for Trauma from Narcissistic Abuse

HOMEOPATHY FOR TRAUMA FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

By Dr S V Bulatov – registered homeopath

The trauma from a narcissistic abuse is quite frequent according to a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships which reveals that “about 25% of individuals have experienced some form of a narcissistic abuse in their relationships”.

There are 3 fundamental patterns created by trauma:

1. Perpetrator/persecutor – repeating and worsening of the negative pattern
2. Survivor/victim – overcoming or succumbing to the negative pattern
3. Rescuer/healer – helping herself/himself and others to heal the negative pattern

There are 4 fundamental trauma responses (4 F’s):

1. Fawn – extreme people pleasing, creating peace in order to avoid conflict. Suppression of emotions, feelings and needs.
2. Fight – verbal and/or physical fighting, building a wall to create space or safety.
3. Flight – getting out of the situation to keep safe mentally, emotionally and/or physically.
4. Freeze – shutting down intentionally, feeling that mind is blank, can’t move or take action, disassociating away from the situation to create safety.

The trauma from a narcissistic abuse is always secondary and/or a re-trigger. The original trauma has to be released in order the trauma from narcissistic abuse to be healed. The unresolved original trauma keeps attracting similar trauma later in life.

There are 3 fundamental spiritual obstructions for permanent healing:

1. Generational curse/negative karma – passed on during conception
2. Demonic oppression – entities attachment at conception or later in life
3. Witchcraft – generational at conception/pregnancy/birth and/or from other people later in life

There are 3 fundamental soul/body obstructions:

1. Miasms – the negative polarity of the cellular memories of: psora, gonorrhea, syphilis, Lyme disease, tuberculosis, leprosy, malaria, HIV/AIDS, cancer, radioactive disease, covid, etc. They are continuously depleting the person energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically.
2. Chronic shock – generational, during conception/pregnancy/birth and later in life from injuries, lightnings, electrocution, coma, operations, anesthetics, recreational drugs, shamanic rituals, suicidal attempts, strangling, drowning, medical procedures, sudden deaths, accidents, muggings, robberies, hijackings, riots, shootings, stabbings, life threats, police/army service, war, horror movies, etc. The person is not present and grounded. A healing on a deep subconscious level is not possible.
3. Severe daily distress – on a personal mental, emotional and physical level and/or on an environmental level like geopathic stress, electro-magnetic and/or nuclear radiation, toxic job, chronic damp/mould exposure, occupational hazards, etc.

There are 3 types of trauma from a narcissistic abuse:

1. Ongoing – the individual is still in the abusive relationship.
2. Recent – the individual has left the abusive relationship a few months to 2-3 years ago.
3. Past – the individual has left the abusive relationship 3 to 20 years ago.

These are the most commonly experienced emotions, feelings and mental states in the partner as a result of a narcissistic abuse. They cause many symptoms and diseases if not thoroughly released:

1. Abandonment
2. Anger
3. Anxiety
4. Contradiction
5. Disappointment
6. Domination
7. Embarrassment
8. Envy
9. Fear
10. Fright
11. Grief
12. Guilt
13. Hatred
14. Humiliation/mortification
15. Indifference
16. Indignation
17. Jealousy
18. Neglect
19. Offence
20. Punishment
21. Quarrels
22. Rage
23. Rejection
24. Remorse
25. Reprimands
26. Reproaches
27. Rudeness
28. Sadness
29. Shame
30. Unhappiness
31. Wounded honor

The trauma from any mental, emotional, verbal, sexual and physical abuse changes physically specific brain structures. This creates a condition called Temporal Lobe Epilepsy (TLE) that is often mistakenly diagnosed as anxiety, depression, bi polar, ADD/ADHD, personality disorder, schizophrenia, etc. Unless a spontaneous rewiring is allowed to take place via holistic treatment, the trauma could not be healed on a deep subconscious level.

There are 4 conditions that have to be practiced on a daily basis in order a spontaneous rewiring to take place:

1. Quantum leap hugs and regular orgasming
2. Stopping all natural and chemical stimulants
3. Stopping all hormonal contraceptives (women only)
4. Stable blood sugar maintained by an individualized eating plan according to the metabolic type and microbiological terrain

Bioidentical natural progesterone cream 3% applied in the 2^nd half of the cycle or daily on different creases is very helpful for rewiring of the brain in progesterone deficient women not predisposed to hormonally induced cancers.

The African traditional herb uvuma omhlope is also very helpful for some people, especially for connecting them to their dreams, spiritual gifts and brain rewiring.

Microdosing with psilocybin is very effective for another group of people.

The negative cellular memories from mental, emotional, verbal, sexual and physical abuse are trapped in different body parts. They send continuously negative feedback to the brain via central and autonomic nervous system. Unless they are released with various touch techniques by the individual himself/herself, partner or therapist, the trauma cannot be released permanently.

There are many homeopathic remedies for the above trauma responses and patterns that challenge the vital force/soul in a highly specific way to release the negative cellular memories on a deep subconscious level. Radical transformation takes place in a few weeks to a few months.

Here are the recommended homeopathic remedies for:

1. Perpetrator/persecutor – ars., am-c., anac., androc., aur., bell., fl-ac., hep., hyos., kali-i., lach., merc., nit-ac., plat., stram., sulph., tarent.
2. Survivor/victim – aeth., carc., ign., iod., nat-m., ph-ac., sep., staph.,
3. Rescuer/healer – anh., carc., caust., foll., hydrog., ign., lach., phos., staph., thuj.
4. Fawn – carc., foll., ign., nat-m., puls., sep., staph., sil., thuj.
5. Fight – anac., ars., carc., caust., hep., ign., merc., nit-ac., nux-v., plat., stram., sulph., tarent.
6. Flight – foll., mag-c., mag-m., staph., puls., sil., thuj.
7. Freeze – acon., arn., arg-n., bar-c., bar-m., bell., calc., gels., hyos., op., ph-ac., stram.,
8. Generational curse/negative karma – hell.,
9. Demonic oppression – acon., ars., bell., calc., camph., croc., cupr., cupr-act., hyos., kali-br., nat-c., nat-m., op., phos., plat., puls., sep., sil., spig., sulph., stram., tarent., thuj.,
10. Witchcraft – hell.
11. Miasms:

            -psora – agar., ant-c., ars-i., bar-c., calc., calc-p., carb-an., carb-v., cupr., hep., kali-c., lyc., mag-c., mag-m., merc., nat-c., nat-m., nit-ac., ol-j., petr., psor., sil., sulph.

           -gonorrhea – agar., apis., arg-met., arg-n., ars., aster., aur-m., bar-c., calc., caust., dulc., ferr., fl-ac., graph., iod., kali-s., lach., mang., med., merc-c., mez., nat-m., nat-p., nat-s., nit-ac., phyt., sars, sec., sel., sep., sil., staph., sulph., thuj.

           -syphilis – ant-t., apis., arg-n., ars., ars-i., aur., aur-m., aur-m-n., calc-f., calc-i., calc-s., carb-an., caust., cean., chim., colch., con., fl-ac., graph., hep., hippoz., iod., iris., kali-ar., kali-bi., kali-i., kali-s., kalm., kreos., lac-c., lach., laur., led., lyc., merc., merc-c., merc-d., merc-i-f., merc-i-r., mez., nit-ac., ph-ac., phos., phyt., sabad., sang., sars., sep., sil., staph., sul-i., sulph., syph., thuj., thyr., viol-t.

           -Lyme disease – aur-ar., aur., chin-su., gaul., merc., nit-ac.,

           -tuberculosis – bac., bell., calc., calc-p., con., hep., kali-c., lachn., lyc., phos., puls., sang., senec., sep., sil., stann., sulph., ther., tub., vanad., zinc.

           -leprosy – lepr., sulph.,

           -malaria – aran., arn., ars., bapt., caps., cean., cedr., chin., chin-ar., chin-s., eucal., eup-per., germ-met., ip., lept., methyl., malar., nat-m., nat-s., pop., pyrog., sulph., tarax., urt-u.

           -HIV/AIDS – acet-ac., am-caust., anan., arg-met., carb-veg., crot-h., germ-met., med., PC1AM/PC1AF, phos., plut-n., tub., uncar-tom., sulph.

           -Cancer – abrot., ars., brom., carb-an., carc., con., cund., hydr., lyc., nit-ac., phos., phyt., plb., plb-i., sang., scir., sec., sil., sulph., ter., thuj., x-ray.,

           -Radioactive disease/radiation – granite., marble., plut-n., rad-br., uran-n., x-ray.

12. Chronic shock – acon, am-c., apis., arn., aur., bell., bufo., calc., carc., caust., coff., cupr., gels., glon., graph., hyos., hyper., ign., kali-br., kali-p., lach., lyc., mag-c., manc., merc., morph., nat-m., nit-ac., nux-m., nux-v., op., petr., ph-ac., phos., pic-ac., plat., puls., rhus-t., sep., sil., spong., stram., vanil., verat.
13. Severe daily distress – adaptogens, radiation protection devices, black obsidian, black tourmaline, kyanite, pink quartz, Himalayan salt, kelp, seaweed, sea moss, zeolite, sorbent A, humic acid, individualized anti-mould diet, essential oils spray, ozonator, ionizer, Himalayan salt lamp, repeating the homeopathic remedies as often as needed, etc.
14. Abandonment – ars., aur., calc., lac-h., lyc., mag-c., nat-m., nat-sil., phos., psor., puls., sep., sil., sulph., thuj., tritic-vg., vanil.
15. Anger – acon., aur., cham., coloc., ign., ip., nux-v., op., plat., sep., staph., tarent., tritic-vg., vanil.
16. Anxiety – acon., ars., arg-n., aur., bell., bism., bov., bry., cact., calc., calc-ar., calc-p., calc-s., camph., cann-i., carb-v., carbn-s., caust., chin., con., dig., iod., kali-ar., kali-c., kali-p., kali-s., lyc., mez., nat-ar., nit-ac., phos., psor., puls., rhus-t., sec., spect., sulph., verat.
17. Contradiction – aur., cham., elaps., ham., helon., ign., lyc., med., nux-v., sil., spong.
18. Disappointment – aur., bry., coloc., gels., ign., merc., nat-m., ph-ac., puls., staph., tritic-vg., vanil.
19. Domination – anac., aur-m-n., carc., cupr-act., falco-pe., foll., ign., lyc., mag-c., mag-m., podo., sep., staph., thuj., tritic-vg., tub., vanad., zinc.
20. Embarrassment – ambr., bar-c., merc., nat-m., op., ph-ac., phos., puls., sep., staph., sulph., tarent., vanil.
21. Envy – am-c., ars., chin., hyos., pall., plat., puls., staph., sulph., tarent., tritic-vg., zinc.
22. Fear – acon., act-sp., arg-n., bell., caust., gels., ign., op., spong.
23. Fright – acon., apis., arg-n., art-v., aur., bell., bufo., caust., coff., cupr., gels., glon., graph., hyos., hyper., ign., kali-br., lach., lyc., merc., morph., nat-m., nux-v., op., petr., ph-ac., phos., plat., puls., rhus-t., sep., sil., stram., vanil.
24. Grief – acet-ac., ambr., apis., arn., aur., bell., bry., calc-p., caust., cocc., coloc., crat., dros., gels., graph., hura., hyos., ign., kali-br., lach., nat-m., nux-v., op., ph-ac., phos., plat., puls., samb., sep., staph., stram., sulph., tarent., tritic-vg.,uran-n., vanil., zinc.
25. Guilt – acon., ars., aur., carc., cocc., dig., hyos., ign., nat-m., nux-v., op., puls., thuj.
26. Hatred – agar., anac., aur., calc., cham., cic., lac.-c., lac-leo., lach., led., nat-m., nit-ac., nux-v., raph., rhus-g., sulph., tarent.
27. Humiliation/mortification – acon., apoc., arg-n., aur., aur-m., aur-m-n., bry., carc., cham., chin., coloc., dulc., ign., lach., lyc., lyss., mur-ac., nat-m., nux-v., op., pall., petr., ph-ac., puls., rhus-t., seneg., staph., sulph., tritic-vg., vanil.
28. Indifference – alum., anac., apis., carb-v., chin., con., crot-c., hell., mez., nat-c., nat-m., nat-p., onos., op., ph-ac., phos., plat., puls., sep., staph., thyr., vanil.
29. Indignation – ant-c., coloc., ign., nat-m., nux-v., staph.
30. Jealousy – apis., aur-m-n., hyos., ign., lach., nux-v., phos., puls., staph., tritic-vg.
31. Neglect – am-c., aur., carc., graph., ign., lac-h., lach., lyc., mag-c., mag-m., mag-s., med., nat-m., nux-v., pall., plat., puls., sep., staph., sulph., thuj., verat.
32. Offence – anac., cham., cocc., ign., merc., nat-m., op., pall., seneg., staph.,
33. Punishment – agar., anac., carc., chin., cupr., dam., ign., nat-m., podo., tarent.
34. Quarrels – berb., carc., cic., dulc., germ-met., glon., ham., hydrog., ign., kali-s., mag-c., nat-m., podo., ran-b., spig., symph., thuj., tritic-vg., verat.
35. Rage – apis., arn., carc., coloc., phos., plat.
36. Rejection – aur., aur-s., carc., caust., lyc., nat-m., pall., sep., sil., sul-ac., sulph., thuj., tritic-vg.
37. Remorse – arn., aur., con., symph., tritic-vg.
38. Reprimands – asar., carc., coloc., ham., ign., op., podo., spong., staph.
39. Reproaches – ambr., aur., cham., op., plat., staph., stram., sulph., tarent.
40. Rudeness – acon., anac., bar-m., calc., carc., cocc., colch., ham., hyos., lac-c., lyc., mag-m., med., mur-ac., nat-m., nux-v., ph-ac., puls., staph., symph.
41. Sadness – acon., ars., ars-i., aur., aur-m., calc., calc-ar., calc-i., calc-s., carb-an., carbn-s., caust., cham., chin., cimic., crot-c., ferr., ferr-i., gels., graph., guar., hell., hipp., hyos., ign., iod., kali-br.,kali-p., lac-c., lach., lept., lyc., merc., mez., murx., nat-ar., nat-c., nat-s., nat-sil., nit-ac., op., plat., psor., puls., rhus-t., sep., stann., stry., sulph., symph., thuj., tritic-vg., vanil., verat., zinc., zinc-p.
42. Shame – aur., carc., falco-pe., ign., nat-m., op., podo., staph., sulph.
43. Unhappiness – acon., ambr., ars., carc., caust., cham., coff., dig., ign., lyc., nat-c., nat-m., nit-ac., nux-v., phos., plat., sep., sil., spong., stram., sulph., verat.
44. Wounded honor – aur., aur-m-n., aur-s., carc., cham., ign., lac-leo., nat-m., nat-s., nux-v., pall., plat., podo., staph., sulph., verat.

I hope that the above information will give you many insights and help you with healing the trauma from a narcissistic abuse. Please, find an experienced homeopath, trust the process, enjoy the journey and transform yourself!